Do for others and it will come back to you

I've been sick for almost two weeks with what feels like vertigo.
It has made my husband responsible for all my chores and he doesn't complain.
He's really a good guy.
We've been reading in some books, for the past many months, in an effort to spend time together talking and to learn.  It has become precious time.  Lately he's had to do the reading because I can't look at the words without feeling dizzy.  Today it lulled him to sleep.  Lol!
One of the things that stuck out in one of the books was "Do for others and it will come back to you".  I've heard the phrase many times before.  It's not foreign or new to me.  But for some reason today it was heard with a different level of  maturity.
I think, when you are someone who doesn't like to accept help but then you don't feel well.....  It sets off a different thought process.
I am the worlds worst at letting people do for me.  I don't like it.  It makes me feel guilty.  It makes me feel like I owe something.  I fear it.
This is a new realization.
Not sure what to do with it.
In the same way... I fear doing too much.
My in laws were the type of people who, if you did something twice, they expected it for life.  That created an entirely different kind of fear.

I don't really have any words of wisdom for this.  I just thought it was something I wanted to share.
It got me thinking.

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